Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Intelligence is an approach that will raise your awareness of what maybe holding you back to achieve your success and happiness, and help you strive to be the only emotionally intelligent leader you should ever be waiting for – You !

Emotional intelligence is the science of our time. It is based on the art of managing our emotions by learning how to synchronize the feelings of the heart with the thoughts of the mind, to find the right balance to contribute for a happy family or to lead good business relationships.

In addition to our two polarities,  men and women operates differently, men operates under the “single focus” mode ” and women under the “multi-task” mode, and by understanding this reality we can establish a better communication based on respect of their difference in order to understand one another.

We begin first to discover ourselves by making an introspection: we must unite our two polarities, the masculine and the feminine, to regain their balance and their infinite values, and be able to project this harmony towards our relationships and the external world.
When we learn how to balance our two polarities within, we learn how to respect the masculine energy and the feminine energy with their authentic values. This understanding helps us create the vital space to be able to love, respect and appreciate one another.

For example in one and same family it is clear that the needs of each member is different from one another, that is why it is Important to go through good communication in to reveal each others needs, and discover the art of emotional transition that transports us gently from one emotion to another and plays a capital role in most quality relationships, because it allows us to move from one state of mind  to another gracefully with kindness. 

In a professional case where all males and females are qualified professionals,  to succeed in business, the entrepreneur can not rely on his authoritarian side to give orders to his employees to achieve his objectives. For a long-term productivity he must consider the life and well-being of each of his employees to be able to navigate his boat in an effective and sustainable conditions, as their general state of mind will determine inevitably the balance or imbalance, and the direction his business is taking. 

In many cases emotional intelligence is the art of emotional transition that determines the art of living in a quality relationships based respect, knowing that the suitable transition is appropriate to each one will avoid conflicts, frustrations, and discord to make room for a better communication, change, understanding and well-being.

Wafa El-Amrani
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Prayers and meditation

Understanding the need, why it feels good to meditate and pray.

As humans, we need to recharge ourselves with positive energy for our health, our psychological and our emotional balance.

It is necessary for our inspiration and creativity to align ourselves with the universal laws to be able to fulfill our Divine mission that is our destiny. It is necessary to silence the mind and our inner voice to reach the deepest silence of our soul, and listen to our intuition, our precious guide, and to what it has to reveal to us for the next step to take.

It is necessary to reconnect with our inner child too, to know the emotions that are holding us back from completing our destiny, and to free our inner child gradually from any negative charge by reminding him constantly how much we care, love and protect him and that he is completely safe.

It is important to stay connected to our heart, and be able to forgive our own ignorance, and forgive all those we think have “harmed” us, so that we can achieve a permanent letting go guided by our Divine intuition and find all the treasures of our soul within, placed carefully inside by our Creator, and share with others all the riches and the abundance of our wonderful world.

Wafa El-Amrani

Your self-esteem

The healthy development of your self-esteem allows you to trust your decision-making, and to feel safe to realize your dreams with positive results. It is according to science and quantum physics that the law of cause and effect makes the whole world go around.

It is truly unfortunate that society around the world is preventing our children from experiencing their own decision-making at an early age to help them raise their self-esteem through the universal law of cause and effect because their energy centers (chakras) are generally open and very active during their growth. It is during their childhood and adolescence, that they feel the need to discover this skill.

A person with low self-esteem and the inability to make decisions cannot trust their intuition to guide them because they have already exchanged the power of their soul with external entities, doubting themselves by often asking the question whether or not they will fail before the eyes of others.

The intuition is never wrong, because it comes from the soul, the source that challenges time and space, the part of us that is the closest to our Creator, the Infinite and inexhaustible Source. Our intuition always guides us to take initiatives to see clearly in the present moment, and what is the next step we must take.

Awareness begins with taking responsibility of our decision-making, and recognizing that we are the creators of the cause of all that is happening to us. With self-esteem and decision-making abilities, a person can begin to see the link between their choices and the world to be able to shape their life. When this happens, they stops attracting situations that reflect low self-esteem, and begin attracting situations that reflect internal integrity, freedom and safety.

Wafa El-Amrani

Your Soul

Our soul is composed of four bodies. Those bodies are physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.

We know about the physical and the spiritual,  but not much about the other two the mental and the emotional, which are equally important, we don’t see them because they are found only in the subtle matter, a matter that has a higher vibration frequency beyond the one of our physical body and our sensory perceptions. All of these energies are regulated by our Creator to move around and through our physical body. The different energy layers are also known as a whole to form our aura.

Our mental body is the energetic part in which we store our fundamental beliefs about ourselves, about others and the world. It helps us process information, solve problems and generate abstract thinking. This is where our thoughts are produced or created in relation to our analytic reason, logic and everyday memory. It is because of our mental body that whichever feeling we think is positive such as love, will create the desire to reconnect with the people we love.
Also the mind retreats and distances itself in order to think better- because of this it always retains this primitive instinct of separation, comparing and contrasting the present situation with the memories of the past experiences, while trying to find a model or value with which it classifies the present situation. This also means that thoughts in our lower mind or the ego are always coming from the past to create a certain separation with the present. When we have clearly identified our negative thoughts and the patterns that generally limit our ability to evolve in life, we will begin to change our internal / external perception and vision of life, allowing ourselves to go with a greater clarity on the Divine unconditional love. When the mental body finally dissipates and no longer directs us, we can create a link to our heart and begin to follow our soul rather than our ego.

Our emotional body is the one through which we learn to manage our emotions in order to cultivate our emotional intelligence, the essence of our soul and the positive drive of our relationships with others. It is the center of our feelings and emotions: love and hate, attraction and repulsion.
When combined with our spirit, it brings us desire and imagination; it is also the location of sensual pleasure, and real appreciation. When we sleep, for example, we interpret our astral perceptions through our senses with dreams or nightmares. Our emotional body holds all the memories and experiences we have already experienced. We often refer to them as our ‘emotional baggage’. In reality the emotional body corresponds to our faculty of feeling emotions- in common language, the language of the emotional body is referred as the ‘heart’ and the mental body as the ‘head’. These labels correspond to the locations of the two different energy centers in our system.  The emotional body is also known to be composed of a vortex of colors that identifies our aura, and the natural vibration of light from which all creation is expressed; certain shapes and colors represent emotional characteristics that are unique to each person. For example, an angry or aggressive person will have a lot of red around his aura whereas an intellectual person will project a large amount of yellow and a spiritual person from blue to violet and so on.

Our spiritual body is the one by which we appreciate all the Divine creation from the small leaf of a tree to the most beautiful stars and planets like the sun, the moon, and the stars. It is the link between our soul and the world. When the spiritual body is purified from limiting beliefs, superstitions, prejudices and negative perceptions of life, we can reconnect with God’s Divine Will. Our spiritual body is programmed by our Creator since birth to organize and vitalize the physical body and act as a bridge between the physical, mental and emotional bodies through our energy system. Our spiritual body reacts directly to prayer, acupuncture, yoga and meditation. Often, it is referred to as the body we are going to inhabit when we have evolved in full awareness and full enlightenment.

Wafa El-Amrani

Psychology of wealth


Everybody has a wealth story, and it has nothing to do with the economy, the business or the boss, it has to do with the environment your are born in.

When we were young children we used to absorb information and belief around wealth and money like sponges, the information depends on our family’s relationship with money.

Were our parents fighting over money? or did they agree on not spending money? or were they saying there is never enough?

That’s when money became an emotional problem rooted in our childhood and teenage time to become patterns during our adulthood with an integrated  inner thermostat showing the level of our deservedness based on our beliefs and self-esteem.

Events and situations went by, almost forgotten,  but the limiting beliefs stayed stored in our subconscious mind and body.  It can be an unconscious belief that says I don’t deserve more than my brother, or we may be unconsciously expecting (deserving) only a limited amount of money. This belief and attitude limits and affects our performance to reach higher goals.

It is all about emotions; those emotions either positive or negative will drive you to manifest your dreams, or will get on your way to sabotage your goals.

Wafa El-Amrani

Trust the process

Trust life. It’s been around a lot longer than you.

– If you FAIL, never give up because F.A.I.L means “First Attempt In Learning”.

– END is not the end. In fact, E.N.D means “Effort Never Dies”.

– If you get NO as an answer, remember N.O means “Next Opportunity”

– Don’t keep that FEAR because F.E.A.R means False Evidence Appearing Real. 

La culpabilité

Un mot sur la culpabilité.

Vous avez peut-être échoué quelques fois, mais vous n’êtes pas un échec. 
Vous avez été méchant(e) quelques  fois mais vous n’êtes pas la méchanceté.
Vous avez peut-être menti des fois mais vous n’êtes pas un menteur.
Vous avez peut-être triché des fois mais vous n’êtes pas un tricheur.

Ceux sont ces auto-jugements inconscients sur vous-mêmes qui créent la culpabilité.
La culpabilité, cette émotion destructrice qui, une fois ancrée dans votre système bloque votre réussite et votre prospérité. Une prise de conscience est nécessaire pour faire son ménage interne, sans cela vous continuerez à lutter indéfiniment pour apaiser votre conscience mais sans résultat.
 
Le lâcher prise est l’une des leçons les plus difficiles dans la vie. Que ce soit par rapport à la culpabilité, la colère, la perte ou la trahison. Le changement n’est jamais facile, car il nous fait sortir de notre zone de confort que nous chérissons même si elle ne nous sert plus, et très souvent nous luttant pour la protéger (zone de confort) sans la lâcher. Cependant on oublie que tout est temporaire parce que tout est énergie, vous compris, qu’on le veuille ou pas nous sommes fait pour changer vu que toute énergie change.

Continuez à  avancer vous êtes beaucoup plus grand que ces obstacles ou ces “échecs”!
Vous passerez certainement par une série de tourments et de désespoir, mais sachez que nous sommes beaucoup plus que ces auto-judgements, nous sommes désignés par notre Créateur pour être des êtres portant une âme faite pour s’exprimer, s’extendre et grandir dans un espace infini et illimité. 

Wafa El-Amrani

Self-Love

heart and mind

 

The ego has always created a sense of inferiority or superiority, comparison and competition to install the two negative emotions: the illusion and the guilt. It has divided humanity into a society that opposes men and woman, blacks and whites, rich and poor etc. a society that creates preferences, injustice and hatred, the whole mix becomes an excess of pridefulness and self-importance tools of division, with a type of consciousness where you’re only aware of yourself and your situation, and nothing else matters.

The difference between self love and the ego: while self love is the emotion of loving yourself, it is done in a humble down-to-earth manner, as if you understand and accept the way your Creator created you, he created you with your two polarities, with your mind, body and soul. Self Love accepts this with peace and gratitude and often leads to being tolerant and caring towards other people. If you love yourself and fully accept who you are, you have absolutely no reason to feel jealousy or insecurity. But the ego drives some people into becoming egoistical and selfish with an inflated feeling of pride in their superiority on others.

Self love is the act of loving and accepting ourselves fully, all the things and details about us, in every way possible. To love ourselves is to accept ourselves fully and completely, our mistakes, our past, our body, our imperfections and life as it is today; it is to forgive ourselves to be able to make room for change and new opportunities. It is about accepting our two polarities in all man and women around us with their qualities and divine gifts. It is about accepting and respecting ourselves, and accepting and respecting the opposite sex. By rejecting one of them we reject a part of ourselves that makes us whole and complete.

Self-love is an act of faith, it is about accepting how our Creator created us in the first place

Excerpt from “Our Emotional Energy”

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Holistic medecine

Principles of Holistic medicine

Holistic medicine is based on the belief that unconditional love and support is the most powerful healer and a person is ultimately responsible for his or her own health and well-being. Other principles of holistic medicine include the following:

  • All people have innate healing powers.
  • The patient is a person, not a disease.
  • Healing takes a team approach involving the patient and doctor, and addresses all aspects of a person’s life using a variety of health care practices.
  • Treatment involves fixing the cause of the condition, not just alleviating the symptoms.