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La Rédition (soumission ou rendition) à la Volonté Divine

by Wafa El-Amrani, posted in Home

La notion de rédition s’applique à l’expérience humaine, notamment face aux joies et aux peines de la vie, ainsi qu’à la certitude de la foi en le Créateur.
Voici une exploration de ce concept : La vie humaine est marquée par des moments de bonheur et de réussite, mais aussi par des souffrances et des défis. Ces variations font partie intégrante de notre parcours.

La résilience est essentielle : comme la nature, les humains peuvent se relever après des épreuves et se réinventer. La foi en le Créateur offre compréhension et soutien durant les moments difficiles, devenant une source de réconfort.

La rédition spirituelle implique purification, pardon et croissance personnelle, permettant d’apprendre des expériences, même des plus douloureuses. La foi sert d’ancrage en période de turbulence, aidant à trouver un sens et une direction face à l’incertitude.

Croire en un Créateur favorise une perspective positive, où chaque épreuve peut conduire à la croissance personnelle et spirituelle. Se relever après des échecs, avec le soutien de la foi, est crucial pour la santé mentale et émotionnelle.

La foi renforce également les liens communautaires, offrant un réseau de soutien. La rédition spirituelle donne un sens aux épreuves, permettant de voir les luttes comme des occasions d’apprentissage.

La rédition, tant personnelle que spirituelle, illustre la capacité humaine à traverser les défis avec foi et résilience. En cultivant une relation avec le Créateur, les individus trouvent force et guidance, transformant les hauts et les bas en un parcours de croissance spirituelle.

La rédition, ancrée dans la certitude que le plan divin s’accomplira, représente un acte de foi et de confiance. Elle permet aux individus de traverser les incertitudes de la vie avec assurance, en sachant que chaque expérience fait partie d’un projet divin plus vaste. Cela favorise une attitude de paix, de résilience et de transformation spirituelle.

En établissant une connexion authentique et sincère avec le Créateur, les gens découvrent force et direction, transformant avec assurance les épreuves et les succès en un parcours de croissance spirituelle.

La rédition est la conviction profonde que vous êtes conçu divinement, créé avec un objectif précis, supérieur à toute machine, et qu’un plan divin a été spécialement élaboré pour vous, prêt à se réaliser en fonction de votre alignement avec le Divin.

La rédition et la sagesse divine sont essentielles pour trouver la paix intérieure.



Wafa El-Amrani

Certainty

by Wafa El-Amrani, posted in Home

In the grand journey of life, every thread is woven with purpose, reminding us that the Divine plan has no errors. Each moment, from the timing of events to the emotions we experience, serves a specific role in our journey. The surprises we encounter, particularly those moments of “not yet,” are not mere obstacles but integral parts of our growth. When a door closes, it is not a rejection but a protective measure, guiding us away from paths that may not serve our highest good.

Consider the unanticipated pauses in our lives; these moments are often seen as setbacks, yet they are divine shifts, preparing us for what we truly desire. Instead of viewing delays as failures, we can reframe them as opportunities for alignment with our true purpose. This current waiting period might be the universe’s way of orchestrating something far beyond our expectations, allowing us to cultivate patience and resilience.

As we navigate through life’s uncertainties, it’s crucial to trust in the Creator’s plan. You are not off track; rather, you are being shaped into someone capable of handling the blessings that lie ahead. Embracing this perspective empowers us to see the beauty in our journey, fostering a sense of certainty that everything is unfolding as it should. Trust in the process, for every experience is a stepping stone toward your ultimate destiny.

Trust your Creator
With certainty

Healing your Inner Child

by Wafa El-Amrani, posted in Home

The inner child concept highlights how our childhood emotional and psychological aspects influence adult life. Many struggle with toxic relationship cycles due to unresolved childhood wounds. Recognizing these patterns is essential for healing. By applying stoic principles like self-reflection and acceptance, we can understand the root causes of our conflicts. Stoicism encourages us to approach our emotions rationally, helping us identify triggers for negative interactions and break free from these cycles with compassion.

Conflict often stems from unmet needs and miscommunication linked to our inner child’s experiences. Stoicism teaches us to approach these issues with empathy instead of blame. By nurturing a secure emotional bond between our adult selves and our inner child, we foster an environment where both feel valued. This connection promotes teamwork, allowing us to address conflicts and improve communication. Through this compassionate approach, we can enhance our relationships and emotional well-being.

To create lasting solutions that honor both the adult and the inner child, practical strategies are essential. Techniques like journaling, mindfulness, and open dialogue facilitate healing. By incorporating stoic practices—focusing on what we can control and letting go of what we cannot—we empower ourselves to respond thoughtfully. This balanced approach ensures both the adult and inner child feel heard and supported, leading to healthier relationships and a more fulfilled life. Embracing stoicism cultivates resilience and compassion, crucial for healing and personal growth.


Excerpt from the book
“The Little Voice of my Inner Child”

Understanding Perfectionism

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Perfectionism is often hailed as a virtue, yet it can be a crippling mindset that stifles creativity and emotional well-being. At its core, perfectionism is an intellectual exercise that diverts attention away from genuine emotions, hindering the exploration of one’s creative potential. This part of the book delves into the nature of perfectionism, its underlying causes, and the importance of emotional awareness.

Perfectionism stems from a compulsive need to control, often fueled by a fear of experiencing painful emotions. It manifests as a continuous cycle of self-judgment and judgment of others, where individuals perceive themselves and those around them as deficient or “not enough.” This mindset creates a mental residence in an imagined future, where everything must be flawless. However, while one fixates on achieving this ideal, emotions remain in flux, influencing behaviors, perceptions, and even physical health.

The connection between perfectionism and anxiety is significant. Perfectionists often experience a range of physical sickness, including ulcers, gastric distress, muscle tension, high blood pressure, and chronic fatigue. This unhealthy relationship with perfectionism not only detracts from emotional awareness but also leads to a cycle of stress and dissatisfaction.

Emotional awareness contrasts with perfectionism. It means embracing the present, including painful emotions, and observing one’s energy and feelings without judgment. By being present, individuals can understand and process their emotions instead of suppressing them for an unattainable ideal. Perfectionism represents a relentless chase for an illusory future—a never-ending hunger and thirst. It detracts from what truly fulfills us, diverting attention from the richness of the present moment.

Overcoming perfectionism involves accepting the outcomes of one’s choices as perfect, regardless of their nature. This mindset frees individuals from perfectionism’s limitations and helps them realize that their experiences are not flawed. While perfectionism may seem like a quest for excellence, it often results in emotional and physical distress. By embracing imperfection and fostering emotional awareness, individuals can tap into their creative potential and lead more fulfilling lives. Accepting the present moment with all its imperfections enriches life’s experiences.



Excerpt from the book
Our Emotional Energy

https://www.amazon.com/Our-Emotional-Energy-Wafa-El-Amrani-ebook/dp/B077ZB6WSB?ref_=ast_author_dp

Our Inner Landscape

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In our fast-paced lives, it’s easy to escape painful emotions by retreating into thoughts. This avoidance silences the vital communication with our Soul, which guides us through our inner landscape. The present moment opens up endless possibilities, reminding us that our inner experiences are more significant than external circumstances. Neglecting this inner world can leave life feeling meaningless. Embracing our emotions helps cultivate a rich inner landscape, where we can plant good seeds and intentions and nurture their growth.

Our emotions act as a powerful force field connected to our Soul. By staying aware of our feelings and communicating with ourselves, we can uncover deeper understanding and authenticity. Each moment offers a chance to listen to our inner voice and acknowledge our true emotions. This practice requires us to be present and attuned to our emotional landscape, fostering meaningful connection. Ignoring these feelings leads us to seek fleeting external validations instead of the lasting power within.

To embrace the vibrancy of life, we must choose not to numb our feelings, allowing space for both challenging and uplifting emotions. Practices like mindfulness, journaling, and creative expression help us connect with our inner landscape. By feeling deeply, especially positive emotions, we can experience a more meaningful existence.
The journey to authentic power lies in exploring and honoring our inner world, transforming our emotional landscape into a source of strength.


Excerpt from the book
Our Emotional Energy

https://www.amazon.com/Our-Emotional-Energy-Wafa-El-Amrani-ebook/dp/B077ZB6WSB?ref_=ast_author_dp

The Five Wounds of the Soul

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Understanding emotional wounds can aid healing and growth. This section of the book explores five main wounds: rejection, abandonment, humiliation, betrayal, and injustice. Each significantly affects our lives and relationships, but effective healing methods are available.

  1. Rejection
    Rejection is painful and can lead to feelings of unworthiness, low self-esteem, and fear of future relationships.
    To heal, focus on self-acceptance by recognizing your value and practicing affirmations. Surrounding yourself with supportive people who appreciate you can also aid in recovery.

2. Abandonment
The wound of abandonment arises from feelings of neglect, often stemming from a parent’s absence in childhood or a breakup in adulthood. This pain can cause loneliness and insecurity.
Healing involves building trust in yourself and others through small commitments and deeper connections. Engaging with supportive friends and family is essential.

3. Humiliation 

Humiliation occurs when we feel ashamed, often due to bullying or negative remarks. Its effects can harm our self-image and confidence.
Healing requires self-compassion; recognize that everyone makes mistakes and your past doesn’t define you. Assertiveness training can also help you express feelings and rebuild confidence.

4. Betrayal 
Betrayal happens when someone we trust breaks that trust, causing anger and distrust, particularly in close relationships.
Healing involves acknowledging your feelings and processing your emotions. Journaling can be a helpful outlet. It’s important to set boundaries in future relationships to protect yourself. Working toward forgiveness, while challenging, can help alleviate anger and resentment.

5. Injustice 
Injustice wounds us when we feel wronged, whether at work or in society.
Participating in justice-promoting activities like volunteering or activism can alleviate these feelings. Educating yourself about your rights and seeking support from advocacy groups is crucial. Connecting with others who have similar experiences helps build a supportive community and reduces isolation.

Understanding these five wounds of the soul is essential for healing. Each wound impacts our emotional well-being, but with time and support, we can overcome them. Embracing our experiences and seeking help fosters resilience and leads to a more fulfilling life. Healing is a journey.

Excerpt from the book
The little voice of my inner child

Gut Feelings

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Fear and anxiety often arise from false narratives in our minds. Even severe anxiety, such as panic attacks, starts with negative thoughts. The mind can create many worst-case scenarios, leading to anxiety and terror. However, intense feelings do not confirm that your thoughts are accurate. Instead, they indicate that our thinking may be misguided and that we are convincing ourselves of a lie.

When you experience anxiety, you can usually focus on what is causing your worry, but this feeling arose without any clear reason; it feels thick and dark, like a heavy weight that goes with anxiety.

Let’s view things differently. Seeing things clearly comes from appreciating our emotions, whether positive or negative, and recognizing that they guide us through our gut feelings or instincts. You consciously decided to pay attention to and trust them. After few negative experiences, such as losing money, we learn to feel grateful for those bad experiences, wishing we had trusted our instincts more before investing. This awareness has shifted our perspective, highlighting the importance of tuning into our gut feelings or instincts to make better choices and decisions.

Excerpt from the book
Our Emotional Energy 

A Journey from Selfishness to Service

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In the journey of life, people often find themselves at a crossroads, faced with two different paths. One path centers on self-serving ambitions, while the other prioritizes the act of serving others. At first glance, these two paths may seem similar; both can stem from a place of ambition. However, the outcomes of these choices are profoundly different.

Choosing to focus solely on oneself can lead to a life of isolation and self-absorption, like a dragon hoarding gold yet feeling an emptiness within. This metaphor resonates with many who have traversed this path for years. Even now, there are moments when one might slip back into this mindset if vigilance is not maintained.

This reflection emerges from a common human experience: the confrontation of one’s own selfishness. In times of scarcity, individuals often become quiet and self-sufficient, convincing themselves that they don’t need anyone else. This selfishness typically arises not from greed but from a primal need to survive. Yet, it becomes clear that mere survival is not synonymous with truly living.

As one navigates this internal struggle, the realization dawns that without giving back to the world, life can fade into a state that feels superficially fulfilled but lacks true meaning. This epiphany can prompt a shift in focus, leading individuals to serve with intention, engaging in small yet meaningful acts of kindness.

What emerges from this journey is profound: serving others ultimately serves oneself. There is a deep resonance in lifting someone up, as it also elevates one’s own spirit. Sharing light does not diminish it; instead, it enhances it. While selfishness may provide fleeting pleasure, the act of service brings genuine significance and fulfillment.

Now, standing at the intersection of these two paths, individuals gain newfound clarity. They can choose to hold onto their treasures or to spread warmth; they can opt for isolation or embrace the opportunity to offer enlightenment. The decision lies in their hands, but it is important to remember: only one path leads to true fulfillment. Embracing service over selfishness opens the door to a richer, more meaningful life

Excerpt from the book
Our Emotional Energy 

Solidarity Vs. Rivalry

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The concept of the “inner child” refers to the childlike aspect of our personality that retains our childhood experiences, emotions, and memories. Our inner child often shapes our behaviors, beliefs, and emotional responses as adults. When a child grows up in an environment characterized by both family solidarity and rivalry, the consequences can be profound and long-lasting. This part of the book, explores how these dynamics influence self-sabotage and success in adulthood.

Family solidarity refers to the bonds and support systems that create a sense of belonging and security within a family unit. Characteristics of family solidarity include:

  • Emotional Support: Family members provide encouragement and understanding.
  • Shared Values: A common set of beliefs and traditions that strengthen ties.
  • Collaboration: Working together towards common goals, fostering a sense of unity.

Family rivalry introduces competition and conflict among family members. This can manifest in several ways:

  • Comparative Success: Constant comparisons between siblings or family members.
  • Jealousy and Resentment: Feelings of inadequacy or envy can arise.
  • Conflict: Disagreements can lead to a breakdown of relationships.

When a child experiences both solidarity and rivalry, they develop a complex emotional landscape. The inner child learns to navigate conflicting feelings, which can lead to several outcomes:

  1. Attachment Styles: Children may develop insecure attachment styles, impacting their adult relationships.
  2. Identity Confusion: The struggle between wanting to belong and competing can create confusion about one’s identity and self-worth.
  3. Emotional Regulation: Difficulty in managing emotions may lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms.
Consequences in Adulthood :

Self-sabotage :
  1. Fear of Success : Adults who grew up in competitive environments may fear success due to the pressure of living up to expectations or the potential for jealousy from others. This can lead to procrastination, avoidance, or undermining their own efforts.
  2. Imposter Syndrome: Individuals may feel like frauds, attributing their successes to luck rather than ability. This belief can stem from childhood comparisons, leading them to sabotage opportunities to avoid being “found out.”
  3. Conflict in Relationships: The inner child may struggle with trust and vulnerability, leading to self-sabotaging behaviors in intimate relationships. The fear of being hurt or rejected can prevent meaningful connections.

Success :
  1. Overachievement: In some cases, the drive to succeed can become a double-edged sword. While it may lead to accomplishments, it often comes with high stress and burnout, as the individual feels compelled to prove their worth continually.
  2. Inability to Celebrate Wins: Adults may find it challenging to celebrate their successes due to ingrained beliefs of inadequacy. This can lead to a cycle of striving without fulfillment.
  3. Disconnection from Authenticity: The pressure to conform to familial expectations can result in a disconnection from one’s true self. Adults may pursue careers or lifestyles that do not resonate with their true passions or values.
conclusion :

The interplay between family solidarity and rivalry shapes our inner child’s development, influencing adult behaviors and emotional well-being. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for breaking the cycle of self-sabotage and fostering success. By nurturing the inner child and addressing unresolved conflicts, individuals can pave the way for healthier relationships, greater self-acceptance, and a more authentic path to success. Embracing both the supportive and competitive aspects of family dynamics allows for a more integrated sense of self, ultimately leading to a fulfilling and balanced life.

Excerpt from the book

Our Emotional Energy

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year

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As we step into this exciting new year, I want to take a moment to wish you a joyful and prosperous 2025!
May 2024 sweep away your worries and make room for countless blessings and opportunities, creating a beautiful space to welcome 2025 with open hearts, ready for new experiences
Cheers to an amazing year ahead filled with happiness and success !

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Alors que nous entrons dans la nouvelle année, je tiens à vous souhaiter une année 2025 joyeuse et prospère !
Que 2024 emporte vos petits soucis et fasse place à d’innombrables bénédictions et opportunités, créant ainsi un bel espace pour accueillir 2025 avec des cœurs ouverts, prêts pour de nouvelles expériences.
Portons un toast à une nouvelle année remplie de bonheur et de réussite !

Wafa El-Amrani
Transformational Life Coach